1. Don't think about destructive thoughts. What is the use of drowning over if someone has a boyfriend or girlfriend? It will only make you feel bad. Look on the bright side, it gives you more opportunity to flirt with anyone you want.
2. Go out to parties and bars and have a fun time. You can either go by yourself (you don't have to worry about tagging someone along) or with a group (have girls/guys night out or night on the town with friends).
3. Just be patient but open. You should wait for the person that will make you feel great but don't say no to every person that walks up and says hi to you.Have the courage to say yes to a date or two even if you barely met, or at least ask/give a phone number.
4. You should always have a positive attitude at parties and never look angry. You should smile if you catch a person's eye and maybe walk up to them and say hello.
5. Focus on your freedom. You don't have to check in with anyone before going to the gym or planning a girl's night out. Whatever you feel like doing you are able to, without having to coordinate your schedule around somebody else's life.
6. Realize that a lot of the happiness that comes from being in a relationships is available through strong friendships as well. For love and support look to a close friend. If you don't have a lot of friends try joining an activity that you are interested in chances are you will find someone you have a lot in common with.
7. Make a rule for yourself that you will meet new people when you go out. Maybe you will try and make three friends every time you are in a social situation. This will help you to appear more open.
8. Work on making yourself happy by doing things that you believe to be admirable. By doing things that you admire in other people you will learn to respect yourself.
9. Make friends with other single people. It can be hard to be single and happy if all your friends are married. It may make you feel like you're a third wheel hanging out with couples, so get out there and join all those other independent singles having fun doing other activities.
10. Spent time in God's presence. He is our refuge, our strong tower, our best friend. If you have Him, you will know that you have everything.
By: ehow.com
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