How To Get Your Ex Back

1. If you've ever wondered how to get back with my ex, just count yourself among millions of people, especially right after a break up. Sometimes time away from an ex will really expose that you were better left apart to find a person who is really good for you. And other times that time apart really signals that you really want to get your ex girlfriend or boyfriend back.

2. Really examine why you broke up. This may be hard but really think about all the things that lead up to the break up. Maybe you were growing apart; perhaps there was a serious breach of trust. Or maybe there were ongoing issues that couldn't be easily resolved. Determine what led up to the break up. And really take inventory of them all. This will help you decide if you really WANT them back when they do come around. You may determine that "I don't really want to get back with my ex".

3. Get lost. That's right get lost. Your ex is most likely expecting for you to call particularly if you were the one who was dumped. But cease all contact:text, phone calls, email, letters, pony express. DO NOT CONTACT YOUR EX. If you've already made pleas and other measurable steps to contact disengage. That also means to refrain from talking to your ex's friends, relatives, etc.

4. It is definitely true that when breakups are relatively knew, every ex will find some reason to call.

5. If its been several months your Ex WILL CALL YOU-particularly if you've "been missing" in Step 2. And when they do, don't pressure. Be extremely nice. Don't talk about what happened. You want them back. Everything that they expect or that you've done in the past don't do or say.

6. If ex asks to meet, agree.

7. Dress in your hottest attire, but don't be sleezy or suggestive.

8. Behave in a calm normal manner. Don't beg, don't make pleas. Let your ex do the talking. At this time they will be noticing a marked difference in you. They will want to talk.

9. Proceed with caution, there are reasons you broke up (remember step 1) be gaurded and examine if you really want your ex back.

By: ehow.com