1. Work on your body and lose excess weight. If you are overweight, stop doing what so many other people do – stop asking the world and men to like you for who you are on the inside and not be so superficial. Stop blaming others for being shallow and not seeing what’s inside of you. This is not going to change the fundamental nature of men – their desire and drive toward a female who is physically attractive. It is easy to blame men for being superficial, but it’s also pointless and will not improve your dating life. On the other hand, taking the more challenging path of losing weight and toning your body will make you both – more physically attractive and more confident in yourself, which in turn will translate into a more attractive personality to the opposite sex.
2. Curb your excessive talkativeness. Few things are bigger turn offs to guys at the very beginning of going out and dating than a woman who talks too much. If you speak 70% or more of the time when you are out with a guy, and if you engage in a three minute monologue when he asks you a simple question, then the guy will get tired of your company very quickly, regardless of how smart, beautiful and funny you are. No guy will want to be around you for long if you talk too much, because excessive chattiness drains most men’s energy.
3. Respect your time and his. If you are interested in seeing and getting to know a guy you recently met, be courteous and responsible. Act like a “professional woman” when it comes to your and his time. Don’t flake, don’t stand him up, don’t be late when you have a date, and if you can’t make it to a previously schedule date, give him sufficient notice and don’t leave him hanging.
4. Abandon excessive feminism. Do not follow the path of those women, whose life objective is to challenge men at every opportunity and to overcompensate by trying to prove that they can be everything a man can and more. The excessive “go getter” attitude of a woman who is relentless in business and uncompromising in personal relationships intimidates the less experienced and the less confident men, and comes across as ridiculous to men who know better. One famous Russian writer said a few centuries ago that a woman’s greatest strength is in her weakness. There is much wisdom in those words.
5. Develop and demonstrate your sense of humor. Develop the ability to appreciate and “dish out” sarcasm and dark humor as this is one of the most attractive features of any person’s personality in the eyes of a successful, educated, confident guy. No guy enjoys the “Ahh, how dare you!” response to a dirty joke, as no attractive guy wants to find himself near a woman who is too uptight and narrow minded. So… develop your ability to appreciate and demonstrate a witty sense of humor and it will make your personality stand out from many other women.
6. Always carry yourself with self-confidence. Men like women who carry themselves with confidence. If you want to be desirable to man, you need to be confident and manage your life independently. Of course, before you think about others loving you, you should love yourself first. If you love yourself, you can walk with confidence and carry yourself confidently.
7. Always have a positive attitude. While you are carrying yourself confidently, it is also important to have a positive attitude. Actually, men do not like women who are always whining and complaining a lot. Aside from that, you should not also talk ill about others because this will be a major turn off. It would be best to engage in a witty and fun conversation rather than talk about your rants and complaints.
8. Always wear a smile on your face. To become desirable to men, you should always wear a smile on your face. This tip can be simple but it can do wonders. Men want women who have a cheerful aura, so it is best to always put that smile on your face. This will also make you look younger and will give you a positive aura.
9. Offer help to people in need. For men to be attracted to you, you should have a big heart. It is not only nice to help people who are in need but it will also change your views in life. Helping others can give you a positive outlook in life and men find that attractive.
10. Be yourself and do not project an image of another person. If you want the man of your dreams to love you for whom you are, then you should not project an image of another person. You should be honest with yourself and do not pretend to be someone else. If you are going to pretend to be someone that you are really not, your efforts of trying to impress the guy that you want will just be wasted.
11. Do not be desperate for attention. Men don't usually show motives that they like someone unless they are sure about their feelings. If you want to be desirable to men, do not be desperate for attention. Your desperation will only push the man of your dreams away from you.
12. Excel in the things that you enjoy the most. For you to be able to become desirable to men, it would be best to have achievements that you can be proud of. You can have achievements by excelling in the things that you are enjoying.
13. Dress Fashionably. Wearing the most expensive apparel is not the most important thing to a man, but it is important that a woman keep up with her appearances. A woman who dresses sharply comes off as a woman who is successful and who treats herself with love and respect and therefore a man will not want to do less for her either- he will love and respect you too. So be sure to keep yourself updated with fashion and keep yourself well groomed. This will not only draw men to you, but you will also feel good about yourself- which is the first priority before you please anyone else! And remember, dress sexy, but classy as well- and always leave something to the imagination.
14. Express Intellect - Being desirable to a man is not just about having a pretty face or shapely figure. A woman with intelligence is important to and a man wants to be with a woman who will have something to talk about and who will teach him new things, just as he will teach you new things. Everyone is unique and has their own personal talents and areas of higher intelligence than others- so be sure to express that side of yourself to prove that you do have the whole package- an attractive appearance along with other intellectual surprises. Share your hobbies, share things you have learned through your life experiences and show what he has been missing out on before he met you!
15. Tell him what you want - It is understandable that you want a man who will treat you beautifully without you having to give him directions- and you should never lower your standards when it comes to this. However, you also have to remember that men cannot read minds and let's face- we women are emotionally unpredictable creatures and are not always easy to read. Men love it when a woman has the strength and confidence to tell him what she wants. Men want to please women, sp do not be afraid to open up and let him know what it is important to you.
16. Stay Glamorous - This does not mean that you should walk on eggshells and worry about your looks all the time. You should feel secure enough in your relationship to know that even when you are not made up, your man will still adore you and will not look at other women. However, this does not mean you should let yourself go and not care about the things that were once important to you. Relationship usually start going downhill when one or both partners stop caring about the little things, such as dressing up for each other, little romantic gestures and so on. So, remember the little things and always keep your self-confidence in tune by taking care of yourself- and your partner will automatically keep admiring you!
17. Like Your Body - Men love a woman who loves her body. A woman who walks around feeling good about her body and knowing that her body is beautiful is incredibly sexy to a man and make him curious and eager to get to know that woman.
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